Influence |ˈinfloŏəns - the capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behavior of someone or something, or the effect itself

The definition of influence is what many should be careful about you probably have already lost many valuable things in life simply because you were easily influenced by something or someone who at first approached you with convinced reasons that sounded good in your ears but in the end brought you painful and endless frustration, therefore be yourself and don't let what others say or show you to change one of the most important thing you have, your character, what is good for them doesn't mean it's good for you. Watch out!!